What do women really think about dating guys that are overweight!
Take a look at the girls answers below. The answers might not be what you thought they would be. We here at Muscleroast.com don’t even have to give our opinion, you should know the answer. Get jacked is the only road here, but we do understand it’s not everyone’s thing.
What the Studies Really Say
What may be the real reason behind these studies is that the respondents were answering in regards to the men they would consider ‘relationship material.’ The truth is that “…women will fantasize about a hot bod all day long, but in reality, they’d rather be with a fat guy, because it makes them feel less garbage-y.”
As you may know, the type of men women prefer to sleep with and those they prefer to date are quite different. Women factor looks more into men they’d prefer to sleep with, whereas having a good job is a big factor in a relationship. In fact, the main reason women shunned men with 6 packs for relationships are because they felt that they weren’t good enough to date them!
Another important factor that wasn’t taken into consideration in the first study is what defines ‘larger men’. Looking further into the study, it was the Body Mass Index (BMI) of men, rather than their body fat that was used. This means that the ‘larger men’ could well have been hunky bodybuilder types.
Here is a direct quote from a chubby chaser!
“Speaking as a girl who tends to fall for bigger guys, I think I have some experience on the subject. While my ideal type is more chubby/burly (think lumberjack), I have dated a few guys on the fat side of things. I’m just more attracted to bigger guys than I am attracted to skinny/muscular guys.
Yes, muscular guys are fun to look at/fun for a hookup or two, but bigger guys are the ones I prefer a relationship with. They’re far better at cuddling and honestly, usually better in bed. Just my personal experience though.
I will say, regarding your description, confidence and personality has a LOT to do with it. Being someone attracted to bigger guys, it was hard to date for a while because bigger guys tend to be shy/awkward/very self-deprecating. I know you have bad experiences in your past, but you’re going to need to learn how to get past them if you want to attract a decent girl. Some girls are attracted to fat guys. No girl is attracted to a guy with no confidence, who doesn’t think he’s worth dating.”